Just because I am large does not mean I am desperate.

Well, internet dating is an interesting concept. It opens up a whole world of men. Some are fictional and some are real. It can be a lot of fun when someone begins to flirt with you. Then they see what your body looks like. I am not talking nude, just a standard picture. Most times, they will stop talking altogether as if the fat is what defines you as a person. Please! It isn't even close to who I am! Get to actually know me as a person not a ball of blubber.

If the guy doesn't stop talking, they will typically fall into one of the three categories below:

1. Scam artists: They will sweet talk you and tell you anything to get you to "fall" for them. Once they think they have you hooked, they will go overseas on business typically and something devastating will happen. I have been told they were mugged and the money from payroll was taken, their only daughter is desperately ill and they need money to get her to the hospital, or they need money for a plane ticket to come back to the states. Sorry dear scam artist, I was never hooked enough to fall for it.
2. Ex-cons, gang members, drug addicts, etc. Now, keep in mind that I can believe that someone can turn their life around. In fact, I am 100% for it! What I am not fond of, is they usually want a "mom" or a "sugar mama". Most times, they do not have a job or a car and they want you to pick them up and take them everywhere on your dime. I do not mind paying for a date now and then but I am not a bank nor will I ever be.
3. Married.....need I say more? Being divorced twice due to unfaithful men, I could not even imagine hurting another woman in that way. The pain is tremendous and it is simply wrong! 

Despite the situations above, I still have hope that there is someone out there for me. We just haven't found each other just yet or the circumstances are not optimal. As Snow White once said, "one day my prince will come", or at least I truly hope so.